"Understanding Narcissism" by Chris Athey explores the complexities of narcissism through personal experience and through allegorical and psychological means. Athey navigates the challenges of those who have suffered severe abuse and are suffering abuse from a narcissistic partners. The lingering effects of narcissism, including manipulation and control, are addressed in this book. Athey reflects on his own encounters with narcissistic behavior. The narrative emphasizes the psychological implications of living under such influence through the allegory of the "Narcissist Unit". Athey's insights underscore the painful reality of narcissism while offering hope through faith and resilience, inviting readers to understand and navigate their struggles with this pervasive issue.